How to talk to Girls Guides & Tips & Tricks & Tutorials & Methods

There are many saying with “treat her right…..”. Those dont exist on a mistake. If you know how to handle with that “art of relationships”, you’ll be happy having her in your hugs before you expect. If you think its a follow this and that actions like a plan, believe me – you are wrong – its a process, some times very long, sometimes much shorter than you expected, and with time it becomes shorter or giving you more pleasure by doing what at first was very hard for you to act like. In time you own style and proper acting habbits. So DO NOT preassure , insist on results or attention. Just try to make some progress. Otherwise you will make yourself look too thoughtless and rude even. If you talk to her like a normal person and aswell be kind, gentle, sweet. nice and thoughtful.. I would split it up for you in the article Step by Step, but as i said its a process and you never know which step is right for the moment, just as in anything in life common sense would save you in the situation. But yeah – make yourself WANTED by them, thats like most important part : if you notice any interest, back up a little. As they back up when they feel it(girls have much more sense developed in this direction as this is their lifetime weapon – how they threat the man:). Girls care about how you do things, how you say and attitude, not always important what you saying:

Starting up with the opening line on how to talk to girls, you can easily startup with just saying “Hi” and “Hello”. Go with “HEY” if you feel and want to be casual. Once this phase is past, just try your best to make her laugh. It still not should look like you are trying hard  If you try joke after a joke it wont just work .. While talking about some theme inside the conversation you can always throw up something funny in relation to the topic. This way you look interested and concentrated and “LISTENING TO HER” thing, which women synonymous to respect & love, nobody knows why. Try figure what she would like to hear and where to direct the convo in her style, interests, and her passion. Try to involve her with a charm and easy looking attitude at first.
Does she have a boyfriend? Try figure it out with jokes and arguments related to him so she says it alone of course or refuse it. Dont be too direct but yet when its right moment, its good to know that for sure, than while walking on the street some guy appear and hug her. Anyway even that happens, just start talking to him so you excape “the look”. Now you should make him confortable so he understands you are not having intentions. Then leave them both with friendly and acting normal attitude.
Whatever you talk, whatever you do, MAKE HER LAUGH  Not with the price of breaking up the conversation, just chit chat about the topic and figure her interests and show up understanding on what she is talking and what she wants, tell her what she wants to hear. Well dont look desperate though, remember when you see interest little back up helps. When the joke is suited its working out pretty good, even she dont understand it, donet even try explaining yourself much, unless she asks. If you give her impression you are confident, interesting and not obsessive, you will really look attractive in her eyes. Even its hard sometimes, its deffinitely worth it a try. Only one who loose of delays is you, sometimes you can loose a lot so better go for it and make your mistakes.

CONFIDENCE comes with experience, experience comes with confidence .. Like the hell circle you cant escape from  Just DO It – no better reception was made so far. Different girls like different man types, but they all like it all and they all like you be the man.. Even acting the stereotypical manly style you should act like a man, not like a boy, at least at first. But dont worry to be yourself even little nervous, girls like that as she knows you actually like her and even pretending funny to be a man, she knows you are her man, so its all good – confidence comes whan you act like yourself in situations you didnt expected you can.

RELAX. Its not How to Talk to Girls. Its how you talk.. Take it easy & just enjoy the conversation. Dont think about the results or expected of you by the end of conversation. What should happen will happen, so just make it easy for yourself and her. Having “butterflies” in the stomach is a great when you think about it when it past:) It happens, even shaking your voice a little, but stay calm and figure out what to continue talking about till you feel in shape for new hyperbola in the talk. Its a good one aswell – that talks she is impressive for you, and she knows it.. Nothing wrong about showing off what you feel, even not saying it.

What about COMPLIMENTS?!? Hard part to even start it, not even want to think about managing it right… Then dont try stuff you know wont sounds well like “Great Eyes” “You have pretty eyes” so on.. Start small and just put it in the concept or best when she appears: “ahh nice shoes”, or try to uset he humor to support your saying like : “those pants seems like they fit” , “oh new haircut coulda be better but its yet good one”. Watch out what the humor and what you saying connotations may bring, as that’s the line where you can say something that may get you slapped. Dont compliment clothing part of body you shouldnt be thinking/looking at 

Eye contact is the most they look after – if she likes your eyes, she melts as you do hehe Work out/just feel so your engaging and relaxed – look at eye at a time – test it. If you keep your interest on what she is talking about, smile and keep looking at her, not looking around heh. Dont even think about what you have to say next while she is explaining herself, just keep attention and really listen to her and you will get the point, ask questions based on what she tells you. The list with what to say wont help you if it not fits and theme topic and even attitude changes all the time so you cant expect to use same style or even conversation list step by step

Put yourself in the talk. Engage into the concept about yourself, what are you doing now: are you at school, working on what, your opinion on things she study, work.. whatever. Dont talk about yourself directly and alone, just include it into the current topic. It usually comes alone by males to talk about themselves, so watch out not to overeact.


What about her? Ask her about everything related to her: hobbies, interests, if you can predict or can find,know upfront its even better so you can just discuss it. GET TO KNOW HER! Is she in and clubs, groups of interests, what she study, what she works.. Actually ask her specific questions, as general ones comes to a lot of non organised or understanding information. If you know specific areas she is interested into you should set your mind to help her learn more, you should learn more so you are interesting to her with same interest, of course dont change your interests just support hers.. Watch out as good intentions may look to her like you are an investigator  While you know her most powerful is she actually get to know you, which makes you closer and with time she shares more as she knows you more aswell. Its two directions process of course.

Deal or Not ?!? It all depends on you and you know it! How to talk to girls is very important BUT don’t delay for too long as only you can loose of that. She may think you are not so attracted by her, or even just get bored. If you feel its right time even you are not ready just ask her number. As you started with hey, just ask her on final with “hey, it was nice and i enjoyed talking to you. Would like to talk again.. Can i have your number?” … or just as implemented like you forgot “hey Jenny whats your number so i call you…” Make it sound appropriate, even you cant do it best it will be your way so she knows its you not your back mind  If you does not sound creepy, like being drunk or direct like in 3 sentences asking for her number, being friendly and great attitude guy, she probably will give it without even crush on you. Mention her you will want to call her some time to talk again and thats it, no need to get into details what you going to do on next so it does not sound as scary as a date.

Getting rejected happens & as said up its just experience.. keep walking J  Next time you do it better, or even acting all cool after being rejected may end up in she giving you her number in a while. Let me finish with the saying “There is plenty fish in the sea!”